Only the unloved and unloving escape grief It is the price paid for the love that makes life worth living The book is sub-titled 'The Bereavement Journey' and by writing of her own experience and that of others, the author sets out to help people 'come through' their grief and to gain support in the strange angers, guilt and frustration that they will find in common with these people to come through grief to life again on the far side of of loss