人的一生究竟要怎样度过？这恐怕永远也无法正确解答。许多人一生都在感叹：我这一辈子，没有一刻让自己安宁过。直到死时，才悟出一点道理：原来是自己"杀"死了自己。一些人之所以感到处世艰难并不是因为外在的原因，而是自己的思维观念和处世方法出现了问题，愤世嫉俗、圆滑世故、投机取巧、烦闷、暴躁、怨忿、折腾等等，好像整个世界都在跟自己过不去。(How will a man spend his life？ There will be probably no right answers. Many people sigh throughout their life that: I've never lived in piece in my whole life. It is till death that I come to know that: it is I who "kill" me. The reason why some people believe they live hard not in external reasons. Instead, the reason is that there is something wrong with their mind conception and way of doing things. They are highly critical of society, sophisticated, opportunistic, worried, irritable and angry and struggling as if the whole world was opposite to them.)