博弈论原是数学运筹中的一个支系，是一门用严谨的数学模型研究冲突对抗条件下最优决策问题的理论，它是对世事的一种有效的分析方法。常言道：世道如棋，博弈论的伟大之处在于其通过规则，身份、信息、行动、效用，平衡等各种量化概念对人情世事进行了精妙的分析，清晰地揭示了人们的各种互动行为、互动关系，从理性的角度为人们获得自身最大利益提供了正确的决策方案。心理学则是一门揭示人的心理活动规律的科学，是一门让人变得更聪明的学问。心理学比其他学问更加直接、更加频繁地影响着人们的生活，人际关系中各种的问题，都与心理学有着千丝万缕的联系，一旦掌握了相关的。 ( Game theory used to be branch of Mathematic operational research and it is the theory about studying the optimal decision under the confrontation with strict mathematical model and the effective analyzing method to daily affairs. It is said that social life is like chess and the greatness of game theory is to carry out fine analysis to daily affairs through various quantized concepts such as regulation status, information, behavior, effect and balance and reveal various inter-behavior and inter-relations clearly and provide rational solution to make them benefit from it the most. On the other hand, psychology is the science that could disclose the law of psychological activity and turn people to be smarter. Actually, psychology could influence the human life in a more direct and frequent way And all the issues in interpersonal relationship are connected with psychology closely. )