内容简介：父母用打骂的方法教育孩子，是受传统教子观念影响的结果。"打是亲骂是爱，不打不骂是祸害"、"棍棒底下出孝子"、"树不修不成料，儿不打不成才"、"舍不得重打，上房揭瓦；捶捶打打，出匹良马"，是许多家庭世代相传的"教子经验"。打骂教育是中国传统专制制度的残余，是一种摧残孩子身心的畸形家庭教育方式。不仅不会使孩子成才，而且还有可能造成家庭悲剧。更为可悲的是，这种畸形的教育方式在文明如此发展的今天，依然普遍存在，尤其在城乡地区、父母文化偏低的群体和社会平民阶层中，更是突出。（Synopsis: Many Chinese parents educate children by beating and scolding them, which is a manifestation of the remaining influence of traditional notion of education: "beating means solicitude and scolding means love, without which the child will become unruly", "filial piety comes from the cudgel", "the tree cannot become building material without processing; the child cannot become talent without beating", "if you don't beat hard enough the child will cause trouble; after some beating the child will be successful", such are the "education best practices" handed down through generations in many families. Education based on beating and scolding is the remnant of traditional Chinese despotism, a perverted education method that destroys the child's body as well as mind. More often than not, instead of making the child successful, this method is recipe for many family tragedies. It is pathetic to see in today's highly developed society this perverted method still holds sway, especially in suburban and rural areas, communities with poorly educated parents and the lower or lower-middle class. ）